I know exactly how this feels. It’s so hard to get over someone you are head over heels for. Now, I don’t think there us an exact easy way to get over someone you’ve liked for so long, I do think there are some things that can help. It always helps me to focus on something else. When I was trying to get over this guy I had liked for over 5 years, I threw myself into the hobby of dance. I was taking dance classes 3 nights a week on top of school, so I didn’t have time to think about him even if I wanted to. You can also use your friends as support. Go to the movies or out shopping and vent if you need to. Best of all, is find someone new. If there a new guy at your school, get to know him. Who knows, he could be your new crush. It’s never easy to like someone and know they have no feelings for you back. If you move on to someone else, he’ll probably get jealous and end up liking you. I feel that’s how it alwayssss works, but too bad for him because you will have moved on. I hope maybe this helped, even a little. <3
~Carly
Well, I would say yes it is wrong because he has a girlfriend. However, you need to sit down and ask yourself. Is the kind of girl I want to become? Do I want to be known as “the other girl”? Because believe me from experience, it’s not a fun role to have.
If you want to get back together with your ex, tell him. Make a pact not to do what you did to each other last time and live happily ever after.
Peace and Love,
Alexis
We always want what we can’t have, and it’s as simple as that. I’m not saying that you could never be with him, I just saying that you don’t want to be and he’s taken.
Start talking to the new guy. See what you like about him that you hate about the other guy. You’re going to be fine, I can tell.
Peace and Love,
Alexis
Girl rules state that whoever liked him first has dibs, and I’m totally going to go there.
She’s your friend, you don’t want to ruin something she’s waited for since Kindergarten, yeah you developed feelings for him, but she’s liked him for like, ever.
Also, about your other friend. Is this a different guy, cause if so, talk to her about it and explain that you like him and see what you can do to work it out so you keep your friends.
Remember friends before boys. Otherwiseyou might end up alone. :/
Peace and Love,
Alexis
Come to terms with them internally and you will forget about them forever.
However, other ways are to take a bubble bath, go running, read a good book, write a poem, write a story, write a book, color, do something for someone less fortunate, do something you’ve always wanted to, make a happy list, listen to some awesome music and sing along, do something for you and only you, tell someone you love them, smile at a stranger and mean it….the list goes on.
Peace and Love,
Alexis
It’s a part of life. Everyone has a crush on at least one of their teachers. Just don’t become obsessed.
Peace and Love,
Alexis
Very easy question. You are beautiful. Because there are things about you, that you don’t share with anyone else. And that makes you unique, and unique things are rare, and rarities are beautiful and are valued the world over, just like you.
You are beautiful and you don’t have to worry about socially constructed ideas of beauty. If you stay true to yourself and what you like, you’ll get out of these hellish years of awkward teenagery more beautiful than ever, because nothing shines brighter than good character.
You are beautiful inside and out, and its as simple as that.
Peace and Love,
Alexis
If you can see yourself being with this person for a long amount of time, and value things about their character, you like him.
If you only like him because he’s hot and you don’t want to date him for very long, you’d just rather make out, its only a crush.
Peace and Love,
Alexis.
Hey love!
Well, I don’t think it is bad at all if you are not contacting them or going further that just checking them and all. If you are going further, then there I think is bad, not like you say if it’s just for fun and all, it’s okay :)
Hope it helped! Much love
Mariana
Hey doll.
Don’t do it, please. Nobody deserves to cute themselves. I know what it feels, I’ve been there. But don’t, it won’t solve anything, cutting yourself probably will make things worse, you will feel “okay” at first but then you will regret it and it is not the best to do doll. And I agree with your boyfriend, he is your everything right now and neither you or him deserve that pain. Mostly for yourself, you don’t deserve the pain and the things you are going through, but it won’t end if you cute yourself. Pretty please, don’t do it, I bet you are so beautiful and amazing, you are so lucky to have somebody by your side to help you!
You know doll, I am here whenever you want, if you need to talk privately with me or whatever my link is in the main page okay? I hope everything goes better and it shall pass. Life will get better, I know because I have been in your exact position and now my life is 10 times better than it was.
Much love. Mariana
